Writing With Abandon

Reflections and ramblings about life as an educator, writer, reader, knitter, and over-thinker. Trying to do the writing only I can do.

Day 2: Boy Writers

I’ve been reading Ralph Fletcher’s Boy Writers: Reclaiming Their Voices and thinking about the different boy writers I’ve had in my classroom over the last three years of teaching writers workshop.

The ones that frustrate us because they sit there staring at a blank notebook page, or tell you “I don’t know” when you ask them “How’s it going?” during a conference. The ones whose handwriting is sloppy or big or practically cryptic. The ones who only ever want to write about one topic or in one genre. The ones who write stories that don’t make much sense or end with an “and-then-the-world-explodes!”

But also the ones who bring so much joy. The ones who have such a clear voice they couldn’t hide it if they tried. The ones whose humor comes across no matter the genre. The ones who have a great grasp on spelling and conventions. The ones who write for fun or collaboratively with friends. The ones who engage in a conference and eagerly try out new craft moves.

Today I’m thinking about all the boy writers I’ve had whose writing has surprised me and floored me. Like T’s final on-demand story about a boy who didn’t have enough words, which has the most beautiful lesson. Or E’s essay about his little sister, inspired by R’s. I’m thinking about the script that L wrote for our showcase last year, and how it brought all these disparate things together in the most hilarious way. About P’s memoir that called out the bullying going on in the classroom, the group of parents who stood reading it together at our celebration. Most recently, I’m thinking about N’s opinion on-demand and his undeniable voice, the way his parents laughed at our parent-teacher conference about how, yup, that kid could definitely be a lawyer.

My goal for the rest of the year? Not get in their way.

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6 responses to “Day 2: Boy Writers”

  1. Anita Ferreri Avatar
    Anita Ferreri

    Oh yes, boy writers are their own special group, so often overlooked compared to the often more prolific girls. Yet, as you have noticed, when they find their groove or realize they have a voice OR want to write something for a meaningful purpose, they can shine so brightly you need sunglasses to read. I once had a reluctant boy writer who finally came to life in a 3rd grade persuasive piece about why you should go to a certain Asian restaurant (that happened to be his parents place of business). It was a precious piece that spurred small moments about folding napkins, sweeping floors and learning to ride a bike on the sidewalk. His voice was a powerful statement about children who spend their non school hours at their parents’ place of work. 

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    1. Amy Crehore Avatar
      Amy Crehore

      I love this! And clearly the small moments and details stuck with you and his other readers. It’s truly a magical thing when our reluctant writers suddenly find their footing!
      By the way, I can’t click on your user to find your blog, so please share the link so I can follow along! 🙂

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  2. Ana Valentina Patton Avatar

    Yay, Ralph!
    I love how this post ends with such a bold call for action, “Don’t get in their way.”
    I needed that reminder, too. I’m so grateful for your reflections!

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  3. arjeha Avatar

    I love Ralph’s work and have had the pleasure of meeting him, listening to him and talking to him. Yes, boy writers are a unique brand unto themselves.

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  4. writingandlaughing Avatar

    You’ve captured this unique set of writers so eloquently. Thank you for lifting them up. ❤️

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  5. Elisabeth Ellington Avatar

    Such variety in the way boy writers are showing up to the page. I love the final line here about not getting in their way. Always that balance in teaching of nudging and encouraging and supporting and knowing when to get out of the way!

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